Apr 17, 2018

Our Sistar Circle

Sunday the 8th I, along side my beautiful sisters Zoë and Jasmine hosted an intimate sister circle event at a beautiful yoga studio in the city. The event was amazing, the studio was filled with so much love and light, those that joined us shared pieces of their stories and listened to ours. The moments we shared in that room will forever by cherished. Time stood still for us as we unraveled the many layers of trauma and pain we caused and endured from others and we were there for each other through it all. 

Now to take a step back.

I believe that sisterhood should be the foundation within the black wombman community, but unfortunately these days it seems that it is a foreign idea. I wanted to break that stigma because healing can truly come from sisterhood. Throughout my self-love journey, I have found that journeying together with my sisters who care for my well-being, motives me to keep pushing and reminds me that I am never alone no matter how lonely I may feel. This is what made me want to create this safe space for us. 

For the past 2 years I have been planning this event in silence. Not very sure of myself and my purpose, but everything began to align for me this year and the Universe sent many signs my way to confirm that I was on the right path. After much sacrifice, planning, crying, excitement and disappointment I was able to manifest a beautiful evening with beautiful wombman and I am so proud of myself. 

All of us had similar stories and all of us had similar traumas. Coming into the room you would see a group of beautiful black wombman unsure of themselves, but sure that they were in the right place at the right time. We all participated in a relaxing and grounding guided meditation with sound healing led by Jasmine, an intimate discussion about self-care, acknowledgement and acceptance led by Zoë, and a self-love activity led by yours truly. 

The evening ended with everyone chatting uncontrollably with one another, basking in all the glory that just took place and everyone receiving a self-care bag to take home with them. The self-care bag included daily reminders, sage, palo santo and a rose quartz crystal to help with the healing of their heart chakras.
 I am thankful for all of the beautiful wombman who came to this incredible event and allowed us to be apart of your healing. If you missed this event, don't worry. There will be more to come.

-Patience Tamarra

Mar 20, 2018

Life Update 2018

Dear You,

I know that when life happens and you aren't ready for it you feel like you are running around in circles. That's how I have been feeling lately. I have had little to no drive to do much, but eat and sleep. But today, I found clarity. I found a piece of light worth holding onto. I found a piece of my self that I missed deeply. I found hope and love and joy and I hope that you will find it soon too.

I've learned within the past 4 months that life is never a walk in the park and growth is never linear. There will always be dark spaces that we have to maneuver through even when we don't have the courage or energy to do so. Have faith and understand that the Universe knows our true power and will never throw things our way that we don't have the energy to catch nor carry. 

Know that you are not alone in your struggle. Know that you are worth the light and love you give freely to others. Know that you are deserving of true happiness. Know that you are divine. Know that you are strong. Know that you are loved.

Your's Truly,

Patience Tamarra

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